tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8557084346768128841.post4620379216172421410..comments2023-05-25T08:51:36.759-07:00Comments on Heal and Forgive: "Get over it" vs. "Go through it"AbuseAndForgivenesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09738069361076986611noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8557084346768128841.post-43739828790042249322008-10-02T22:19:00.000-07:002008-10-02T22:19:00.000-07:00What a powerful dream and a powerful message, Nacy...What a powerful dream and a powerful message, Nacy. thank you so much for posting this.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8557084346768128841.post-6548804111892625062008-09-26T21:16:00.000-07:002008-09-26T21:16:00.000-07:00Keepers, Thank you for stopping by and for your co...Keepers, <BR/><BR/>Thank you for stopping by and for your comments. <BR/><BR/>My experience was the same, my family (and others) also told me to "get over it." I'm glad I "went through it" instead.<BR/><BR/>Peace and Blessings to you too!<BR/><BR/>NancyAbuseAndForgivenesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09738069361076986611noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8557084346768128841.post-57239482813848605372008-09-26T16:39:00.000-07:002008-09-26T16:39:00.000-07:00Dear NancyThis is our first visit to your blog and...Dear Nancy<BR/><BR/>This is our first visit to your blog and here we are agreeing completely with the first one we read. We liked your analogy of the mountain and getting through vs getting over it. We can't tell you how often we heard "get over it", always coming from family hiding our perps and other people who just didn't care.<BR/><BR/>peace and blessings<BR/><BR/>keepersAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8557084346768128841.post-34644719431501758222008-09-25T15:33:00.000-07:002008-09-25T15:33:00.000-07:00April, Your comment, "And the great thing is that ...April, <BR/><BR/>Your comment, "And the great thing is that once it's gone, the view is spectacular. ;-)," put a smile on my face.<BR/><BR/>Thanks!<BR/>NancyAbuseAndForgivenesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09738069361076986611noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8557084346768128841.post-90537396218572383782008-09-25T12:54:00.000-07:002008-09-25T12:54:00.000-07:00I love this. I'm with you--blasting the mountain ...I love this. I'm with you--blasting the mountain away is much better than "getting over it." And the great thing is that once it's gone, the view is spectacular. ;-) Plus, we have a much better idea of our own strength and courage and resilience.April_optimisthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04264149241673287909noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8557084346768128841.post-89420109084387731002008-07-15T18:52:00.000-07:002008-07-15T18:52:00.000-07:00Jumpinginpuddles,Stay strong! My best, NancyJumpinginpuddles,<BR/><BR/>Stay strong! <BR/><BR/>My best, <BR/>NancyAbuseAndForgivenesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09738069361076986611noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8557084346768128841.post-12632841911040611402008-07-15T18:36:00.000-07:002008-07-15T18:36:00.000-07:00we are about to go through it and we arent looking...we are about to go through it and we arent looking forward to it but getting over it isnt workingjumpinginpuddleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02701383598841540578noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8557084346768128841.post-31766873860925421272008-07-13T21:00:00.000-07:002008-07-13T21:00:00.000-07:00Very hard indeed.Thank you Mary, NancyVery hard indeed.<BR/>Thank you Mary, <BR/>NancyAbuseAndForgivenesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09738069361076986611noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8557084346768128841.post-41508624444395540692008-07-13T20:52:00.000-07:002008-07-13T20:52:00.000-07:00It's so hard to chip away at all the hurt and turm...It's so hard to chip away at all the hurt and turmoil that happened so long ago, Reliving the flashbacks brings everything back, but I know that it is a way to heal also. Thanks for sharing..Marynippercatshomehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05642367051111890861noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8557084346768128841.post-50845728065055431272008-07-12T12:48:00.000-07:002008-07-12T12:48:00.000-07:00Thanks Tamara, I'm glad you now have many supporti...Thanks Tamara, <BR/><BR/>I'm glad you now have many supportive people helping you. Especially in light of your mother finding you and telephoning. <BR/><BR/>Sometimes we have to call on all of our reserves to cope with unwelcome hostility. Having support makes it easier doesn't it.<BR/><BR/>Take care, <BR/>NancyAbuseAndForgivenesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09738069361076986611noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8557084346768128841.post-53613700702324797692008-07-12T11:35:00.000-07:002008-07-12T11:35:00.000-07:00Your right - the chipping through is such exhausti...Your right - the chipping through is such exhausting work but it seems the only way if we want permanent healing. Thankfully I now have many supportive people helping me as did the girl in your dream. Cool dream by the way!<BR/><BR/>TamaraTamara (TC) Stapleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00633350990983632539noreply@blogger.com